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It's been a sad day here in Ohio, and wish I had been back in Illinois with my family lately. Sad to say, my sweet father passed away this morning. He had a good life, lots of good memories and a very interesting guy for sure. I guess that is where I get some of my character from. My Mom passed 13 years ago so this is just a bit hard to take. But, my dad is not suffering anymore and lived beyond 80 years old! He bought me my first paint brushes and all my art supplies for college, not to say Mom didn't work very hard too to see me through schooling. They were very "tough" people, rolling over the rough waves of life, with lots of love and lessons to give us. I will miss my Dad so, but feel comforted that he is in peace, now. And to have my friends on the bb here, part of my family, so I will share this with you. (I know my dad's eyes sparkled when I brought the pictures of the Vinton murals back for him to share! He was really thrilled to see his dream for me in large format.) He knows I love art in almost any form. This is the man that showed me how to take chances and dare to do the impossible. He always told me I had moxy and to keep it. I can't believe he is gone and will always feel him standing behind me encouraging me. The sweet part about this is that I will share in the celebration of my son's graduation on Saturday at WIU in Illinois. We are so happy for him and I will be with my whole family and friends for four days, bitter and sweet. It is going to be a special time to be together and there will be a lot of bonding going on.They are in Illinois 500 miles from me, but soon I will be there also. Just to let you know that you guys on the bb are also part of my life, and my family and I know I felt like sharing this with you. Enjoy your parents as much as you can when they are still here.
-------------------- Deb Fowler
"It's kind of fun to do the impossible - Walt Disney (1901-1966) Posts: 5373 | From: Loves Park, Illinois | Registered: Aug 1999
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Sorry to hear of your loss Deb. Thankyou so much for sharing.
You have kindled a huge desire for me to give my dad a big hug and remind him of now much he means to me, both now and in my past.
When I do, I'll think of you.
-dan
-------------------- Dan Sawatzky Imagination Corporation Yarrow, British Columbia dan@imaginationcorporation.com http://www.imaginationcorporation.com
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My condolences to you & your family Deb. And thank you for including us in your expression of gratitude for your parents direction & pride in your achievements.
I will be heading to Illinois in 8 days. My brother & sister will also be there for the first Christmas with our family of 5 together in many years. My dad has had Parkinson's disease for about 5 years now. He is not very comfortable for the most part. This may or may not be our last Christmas that can be spent together, but it is wonderful to have the chance return home to all be with my mom & dad. My dad always supported my creative interests. He even let me take over the rec room with my drums, but he took me aside & said it was a great hobby, but "get a career in art."
Congrats to your son Deb, I'm glad you will be able to be with your family
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Deb So sorry to here this sad news. Our prayers are with you and your family. I don't like to call this a loss, you know where your Dad is. And it sounds to me as if he has gifted you with some incredible lessons and memories. Take great joy in who you are and pass that gift on to your son. May God continue to bless you.
-------------------- Bill Dirkes Cornhole Art LLC Bellevue, Ky. Goodnight Mrs. Calabash, wherever you are. Posts: 591 | From: Bellevue,Ky. US | Registered: Aug 1999
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Deb, thank you for sharing. How wonderful that your father lived such a long and worthwhile life,for he obviously was a man who cared deeply for his family and instilled his values in his daughter.
Congratulations on your son's graduation. It is a testament to the hard work and caring support of a loving family.
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Thank you so much. Now I can see through the day to work with people that are less fortunate than me. I love my second job! Thanks for the support. It will help get me through.
-------------------- Deb Fowler
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Your Pop was lucky to have someone who speaks so highly of him. It also sounds as if you were lucky to have him and spend so many happy years with him. My deepest condolences.
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Deb, Thanks for sharing. Both of my parents are no longer here........ Just remember...."AS kong as you say his name his memory will live forever" Shep'
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Deb I am so sorry. I was very sad to read this news. It sounds like your Dad was quite a guy and you have many happy memories. I will be thinking of you ....... I know you have so much going on right now. .....I will call you soon. Love, Cheryl
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Real sorry to hear about your Dad. I lost my Dad almost 2 years ago. I don't "talk" to him, but I still hear his voice quite often. When working on some projects, I usually hear, "If it's worth taking the time to do... it's worth taking the time to do right." I only hope I continue to hear this forever. Remember the good times, and be glad for him that the pain is gone.
Congratulations to your son.
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Sorry to hear about your dad. sometimes "Life will make us laugh, other times it makes us cry" may he rest in peace. You will always be a proud daughter.
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This is a very touching post and I am sorry for your loss. I love my Dad with all of my heart and soul. To lose him would be a major tragedy in my life. I feel bad for you. But as I read on I could feel that you accepted this as a fact of life. Congratulations to your son for graduating and for you maturity and wisdom and courage to accept the things we cannot change.
Kevin Landry KnL Signs and Imaging
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Sorry to hear of your loss. My dad is still alive and lives in the next town. I see him occasionally...not as much as I should. There is still drama from our childhood that is bieng transmuted. It is hard to let go of some things...but I am working at it. Thanks for the reminder...I will work harder to make him more a part of my life before he is gone. He is 86.
-------------------- Jackson Smart Jackson's Signs Port Angeles, WA ...."The Straits of Juan De Fuca in my front yard and Olympic National Park in my backyard...
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Deb, Sorry to hear about your Dad. My Dad is in the hospital and just had surgery. Enjoy your family this weekend and make good memories. Drive carefully, Debbie
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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Cherish the memories of your Dad and know that a part of him will always be with you. Sounds like you were best of friends.
My Dad and I weren't close until the last few years of his life. I thank God often that he gave Dad enough years for us to become best of friends.
Take care and God bless
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My heart goes out to you Deb. Thanks for doing such a good job of sharing your feelings. Best wishes to you and your family. Congratulations to your son on the graduation.
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Deb.........you're in the minds and hearts of the St.Maries today. May the Angels be with you for as long as you need them.
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Deb, I'm so sorry to learn of the loss of your father. But the good news is that you did not LOOSE him at all. You will see him live on in the younger family members. Whether it be his smile, something he used to do or say, a personality trait, or most importantly, the love you shared will live on in the family. My mom died almost a year ago and I see her every day in the "younguns". Hang on to those beautiful memories. And don't forget that his strength is also in you.
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