I come here pretty much daily just to check in (or check in on) and get the warm fuzzy feeling just knowing you all are all here 24/7.
I make it to chat when I can and when I need to...
One night I really needed to chat, with someone I knew and that I could lay down my brush with and just talk with.
You see, my grandmothers have been doing their best here to shake things up, and a fine job they were doing for a while too.
One suffered a hemorragic stroke on July 23rd and needed emergency brain surgery to remove the blood clots in the back of her head. She survived it and the stay at Kaiser. And, she just made a landmark recovery move last weekend- she took a 5 hour car ride to see the wedding of the little girl that grew up next door to her. I nearly cried seeing her there...
On the first night of grandma's stroke I was awake late that night and feeling alone in her house. (I had traveled three hours to get to where she lived and left the kids and hubby at home.) Grandma has this very old contraption she calls a computer and lucky for me it had a modem in it... I dialed up her online service, loaded Letterville and clicked on that magical green button. I was HOME!!!
I didn't know what I needed, I had been busy all day getting or doing what everybody else needed and forgot about me... until I landed in the Letterville Chat Room- I needed family.
I am so thankful that the "boyz" were there telling rude jokes and the women there were keeping up with them, and off to the side I could have serious conversations with some I knew better than others... for that I can't begin to express how much it meant to me, but say Thank You!!!!
When it was my other grandma's turn to land her butt in the hospital with congestive heart & lung failure and a panic attack the size of her oversized tuna boat she drives (well, that's what she calls it... driving that is), I had the strength to make that 3 hour trip again knowing I would have people there for me too... inside those little old lady computers they all have now- with my family inside them, always there always ready!
Thank you!
The soppy but sincere side of the Moon
(As you can see it took me near three months just to post this... is it too soppy? is it corny? oh heck with you all- I want you to know I appreciate you!)
Have any of you out there felt this way too? About our family here?
Anyway, sorry I rambled on here, but I understand exactly what you mean by this place being family and needing someone to talk to at times.
Hope your grandma's are doing better. Tell them if they pull any more stunts like that, you'll send Guido to kick their butts!
Family stuff, eh?