It seems like many will blurt out their opinions on a thread in such a way, only to have it lead to some pretty wierd diversions from the intended topic of the post. Like say, a simple request leading to an opinion on someone's business ethics, followed by assumptions and judgements.
It's funny, because so many have harped on and on about "Off" topic posts on this BB ... but, as I see it, the problems lie in threads that severely wander off the original intent of any given topic.
I submit that perhaps the goal we each may seek to keep to the forefront here could be that we stay "on topic" with whatever the topic is ... be it "off topic" or not.
Please ... can't we just stay focused and keep some of our opinions, assumptions ... and dare I say, judgements, to ourselves?
There is a difference between voicing our opinions, and making a judgement. Delivery is a big factor in bringing that difference to light.
Just an observation.
Could I be wrong?
Nettie
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"When Love and Skill Work Together ... Expect a Masterpiece"
Janette Balogh
Creative Studio
Problem is.....Too many only read "HALF" of a post, then go off banging on their keyboards, only to listen to their own heads rattle.........
Truth is.......there's only a handful that seem to always get a thread all twisted around to fit their own agenda.....whatever that is.....!! These same ones keep doing it over and over.....!!
If these people would simply follow Netties advise here, and pretend they have an attention span of a little more than a "Grape".........we might just be surprised to see new folks "Wanting" to post here, and some of the older ones coming back.....!! But realistically, I don't see that happening...
The way it is now...........Who needs it..!!
Thanks Nettie, GREAT POST !!
As for me........I'm oughta here again for another few weeks,( I get a hell of a lot more done, and don't miss this place at all anymore) maybe I'll check back in, maybe I won't.........See ya at Pat's !!
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CJ Allan
CJs Engraving &
Designing
Hazel, Ky.
270-492-6209
cjallan@cjs-engraving.com
www.cjs-
engraving.com
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PKing is
Pat King of
King Sign Design in
McCalla,Alabama
The Professor of
SIGNOLOGY
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Rob Larkham
RL Graphic D-Sign
Chester, MA
rldsigns@aol.com
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HotLines Joey Madden,47 years in the Classic Art of Pinstriping
Grants Pass, Oregon
Learn something......
http://members.tripod.com/Inflite
I read most of the posts here - day-by-day.
And I consider a lot of people here my friends.
I try to regard my friends highly.
To me, it's unfortunate and distracting, all of these diversions. I believe most of them could be addressed through e-mail.
I, for one, would not overly-criticize anyone face-to-face with 2000 people watching.
I don't mind family/pet/vacation type [OT] post as they keep me involved in my friends lives.
Letterville - we're all on the same team!
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Pat Neve, Jr.
Sign Man, Inc.
4580 N. US 1
Melbourne, FL 32935
321-259-1703
signman@signmaninc.com
Capt. Sign
Letterville Constituent
constituent: "One of the individual entities contributing to a whole"
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Ian Wilson
Signmaker Toowoomba City Council
Cnr Anzac Ave & Stephen st
Toowoomba Queensland Australia
may all your toubles be little ones
The man that never make a mistake never makes anything
The only question that comes to mind is "How do we handle those who insist on redirecting the focus or intent of the original post?"
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Warning: A well designed sign may cause fatigue due to increased business.
http://members.tripod.com/taylor_graphics
walldog@nc.rr.com
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Arvil Shep' Shepherd
Art by Shep
Oak Island, NC
shep@ec.rr.com
http://artbyshep.homestead.com/index.html
" As long as they say your name, you will live forever"
_____________________________Rodney King
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"If it isn't fun, why do it?"
Signmike@aol.com
Mike Languein
Doctor of Letters
BS, MS, PhD
___________________
You know what BS is, MS is More of the Same, and it's Piled Higher and Deeper here
Letterheads believe in the free exchange of information, doing all we can to preserve the best of our craft's past as well as helping each other learn today's new technologys. Sometimes we just have to get our eyes back on target. Thanks for the reminder Janette.
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Steve Shortreed
144 Hill St., E.
Fergus, Ontario
Canada N1M 1G9
519-787-2673
steve@letterhead.com
ICQ 316338
www.letterhead.com/profiles/shortreed/
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John Deaton III
Deaton Design
109 N. Cumberland Ave.,Harlan, Ky. 40831 606-573-9101
john@deatondesigns.com
www.deatondesigns.com
"Don't tailgate, or I'll flick a booger on your windshield."-Larry Richmond, 11th grade english class.
As I see it'' there is ONLY ONE time, when we can tell Steve what to do,,,, and that is when we finaly have had it with this site and we TELL Steve to go screw himself.;...LOL
The rest of our visit time here is as it should be,,,, ourselves to others''
IF you are unable to communate, and you fill the need to say your sorry'' after stateing your thoughts,,, then CHURCH is a better fourm for you,, where you will be preach AT""" and you can say your sorry all god damn day,,, with a few hale marys...being the only return allowed from the crowd...
Twain,TBuk.
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Ted Bukovscak
BUKOVSCAK SIGNS
S/California
tbuk@nethere.com
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Rob Larkham
RL Graphic D-Sign
Chester, MA
rldsigns@aol.com
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Santo Brocato
Promotion Graphics & Letters
Youngsville LA.
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Si Allen #562
La Mirada, CA. USA
(714) 521-4810
ICQ # 330407
"SignPainters do It with Longer Strokes!"
Brushasaurus on Chat
Gladly supporting this BB !
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Bill Preston
Fly Creek, N.Y. USA
wpreston2@stny.rr.com
[This message has been edited by Bill Preston (edited July 06, 2001).]
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Jack Wills
Studio Design Works
6255 Brookside Circle
Rocklin, CA 95677
writer@quiknet.com
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"A wise man once said that, or was it a wise guy?"
Ken McTague
The Witch city
Salem, MA
example: i asked how to coat out a 2x3 piece of masonite and ended up getting suggestions on pinstriping for dollars, using newspaper for lettering practice, and support for painting on refrigerators. not exactly on topic... but its all part of the mix.
there are many paths leading to the same place.
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:: Scooter Marriner ::
:: Coyote Signs ::
:: San Francisco ::
:: don't blame me... i'm just a beginner
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surf or MoJo
on mirc
Cheryl J Nordby
Signs by Cheryl
Seattle WA.....!
signsbycheryl@hotmail.com
The person who laughs at himself will never cease to be amused!
http://www.thisismycool.com/signs/
From sharp minds come sharp products
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Rob Larkham
RL Graphic D-Sign
Chester, MA
rldsigns@aol.com
Before making a reply, go read the first post at the top of the list and try your best to answer or address the question and/or topic. With that done, feel free to address another issue or start a new topic.
Since we switched to this BB, almost 70,000 post have been made. That's a pile of information that is available for all of us to access. Last week, we saved, and then deleted almost 40,000 posts. We took great care to sort out what posts to keep and what to eliminate.
Keep this in mind when you post. Your words may very well live on here for years to come.
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Steve Shortreed
144 Hill St., E.
Fergus, Ontario
Canada N1M 1G9
519-787-2673
steve@letterhead.com
ICQ 316338
www.letterhead.com/profiles/shortreed/
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Louis A. Lazarus
Milt's Sign Service, Inc.
20 So. Linden Ave. #5B
650-588-0490
fontking1a@aol.com
I think it's just the nature of the beast. People will read what they want into what they read.
I think we're all in different positions of our careers, different areas, different customers, different ages, different experiences, different whatever, etc.... We're different people together in the same line of business. It's this way in any business.
When a certain few get together at Meets they are, obviously, going to have more in common. Or, if they live near eachother,etc...
I was surprized to see that Nettie pointed this out. It must be apparent to the people who run this bb what's up. I posted a post a while ago about cliques. I had some responses I could have taken the wrong way - like people not knowing how long I've been involved. Just because you aren't posting all the time doesn't mean you aren't involved.
It could be worse. My husband goes to BBs that are bruital. If you worked in a big corporation you always have different personalities. Plus, it seems like the world is getting this way - in a big hurry to go no where; and nobody puts themselves in eachother's shoes anymore. I live too close to the big cities probably.
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Summit Signs
Sellersville, PA
summitsigns@erols.com
Without obstacles, life's path is boring.
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Girls carve too!
Behind every good Woman, there's a man.............waiting.
http://www.stmariegraphics.com
1911SRs and Paul Reed Smith Bass Guitars!
(Ooops! sounds like me!)
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Si Allen #562
La Mirada, CA. USA
(714) 521-4810
ICQ # 330407
"SignPainters do It with Longer Strokes!"
95% of all accidents occur immediately after the words "Hey...watch this."
Brushasaurus on Chat
Gladly supporting this BB !
Now how did that Carly Simon tune go?
Hehehe
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Warning: A well designed sign may cause fatigue due to increased business.
http://members.tripod.com/taylor_graphics
walldog@nc.rr.com
hehe
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Girls carve too!
Behind every good Woman, there's a man.............waiting.
http://www.stmariegraphics.com
1911SRs and Paul Reed Smith Bass Guitars!
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Arvil Shep' Shepherd
Art by Shep
Oak Island, NC
shep@ec.rr.com
http://artbyshep.homestead.com/index.html
" As long as they say your name, you will live forever"
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Warning: A well designed sign may cause fatigue due to increased business.
http://members.tripod.com/taylor_graphics
walldog@nc.rr.com